Really achieving your childhood dreams
- Brick walls are not there to keep people out they are there to let us prove how badly we want things.
- It's not about how to live your dreams it about how to lead your life.
- If you lead your life the right way the dreams will come to you.
Today's talk is about:
- My childhood dreams
- Enabling the dreams of others
- Lessons learned: how you can achieve your dreams or enable the dreams of others
As a child:
- Always smiling
- Inspiration and the permission to dream is huge -when he was a kid he say man walk on the moon for the first time.
Childhood dreams for Pausch:
- Being in zero gravity
- Playing in the NFL
- Authoring an article in the World Book encyclopedia
- Being Captain Kirk
- Winning stuffed animals
- Being a Disney Imagineer
- Your critics are your best friends, that means they still care.
He never got to play in the NFL -
- Football got him to where he is today
- Fundamentals and hard work
- Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted\
- Most of what we learn, we learn indirectly (or by "head fake")
Head fake learning = learning the fundamentals, teamwork, sportsmanship, perseverance ext.
The most important learning is these "head fakes"
The skill of leadership is learned by watching others be leaders
People who help us:
-parents
-Teachers
-Mentors
-Friends
-Colleagues
How do you get people to help you?
- You can't get there alone, and I believe in Karma
- Tell the truth
- Be earnest
- Apologize when you screw up
- Focus on others, not yourself
Brick walls let us show our dedication --they are there for the people who really want to get in and for those who do not want to get in.
don't bail; the best gold is at the bottom of the barrels of crap.
WHEN YOU DO THE RIGHT THING, GOOD STUFF WILL HAPPEN
Get a feedback loop; and listen to it! (feedback from people you interact with daily is the best way to find out what you need to improve on. Don't take offense to the feedback, learn from it.
Show gratitude
Don't complain, just work harder.
Important advice
- Be good at something; it makes you valuable
- Work hard…"what is your secret?" --working hard--
- Find the best in everybody; no matter how you have to wait for them to show it.
- Be prepared; "luck" is where preparation meets opportunity.
Head fake is not about how to live you dreams it's about how to lead your life the karma will take care of itself and the dreams will come to you.
If you are interested in seeing phenomenal speaker go see this video on Utube. (1 hour 16 minutes)
Randy Pausch Last Lecture: Achieving Your Childhood Dreams